Happy anniversary
Carol and I decided to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary by doing something different. So we went with Teams4u to Romania to help on 2 children’s camps.
Monday morning 21st July, we boarded the shuttle bus to Heathrow to meet with the rest of the group before flying to Budapest in Hungary. From there we were transported by road to the first camp in the Romanian mountains between Oradea and Cluj.
The sun was shining and we looked forward to a good week. The coach carrying 40 children from Moldova, who had been travelling for 14 hours, arrived shortly after us and so we sorted them to their various tents, (we were sleeping in a house).
The meetings were to take place in a large marquee next to the children’s tents so we gathered there to worship and to allocate the children to groups. Well that was a good start. The following morning, as we gathered together, it began to rain and rain, and the power suddenly went off. What do you do with 40 kids in a marquee in the pouring rain and not able show the presentations on the laptop? Panic!!
Quick team meeting - revert to plan B (not that there was one) Bring out the crafts planned for later - friendship bracelets. This was where the arty people amongst us showed their skills. Others seemed to take an eternity, but I got there in the end (playing with figures is easier).
The afternoon, weather-wise, got no better and by now streams were running through the marquee but the children were kept busy with face painting, games and more friendship bracelets, a real hit!!
Spontaneous singing broke out by the children and was beautiful. In the evening the rain had stopped but it was not fit to meet in the marquee so we used the dining room to play games, share the Bible stories and have a good time.
They tell me it rained heavy for most of the night and, at the team prayer meeting in the morning, it was decided we needed to find somewhere else as it would be impossible to use the marquee and the children also needed to be moved out of the tents and indoors.
Meanwhile it started to rain again. Our leaders went to speak to the site manager to try and sort what could be done. As well as the house where the team were sleeping, there was another block on the site. It was occupied by Americans teaching Romanians English using the Bible and, at their Morning Prayer meeting, they had felt they should do something to help the children.
They offered the hall in their block, which was ideal for us to meet in, and, with a bit of shuffling about, all the children were transferred from tents to indoor rooms, a tight squeeze but God provided.
The children worked in teams, which gave a bit of competition, so they worked very hard all week. The team had all come prepared with their crafts so we made glove puppets, spiders, did cross stitch and weaving.
The stories of Jesus were shared via speaking and power point. We taught them new songs in English and they taught us theirs in Moldovan. The rain continued - so were still unable to go outdoors. Then on Thursday morning the sun came out – beautiful.
In the late morning, some suggested we go and play games outside. It was warm playing rounders, football, skipping and just playing in the sunshine.
There was a problem as the Moldovans did not know how to play rounders and trying to explain to folk who only had a few words of English was an experience. It must have been the way I explained but my group never understood, but we still had a good time.
After lunch the sun was still shining, so we went for a walk up the mountain path but, yes, after about half an hour it began to rain. Sheltering under the trees, we began to sing in both languages but the rain continued and we saw lightning and heard the thunder so decided to return back to the camp.
After drying off, we gave out England football shirts for them to decorate as in the evening we would have a fashion show for the children to show off the shirts. The show was a tremendous success with so many differently decorated shirts with children thoroughly enjoying strolling down the catwalk showing off their handy work.
Friday was the last full day. The children wrote thank you letters and made cards for us to give to the people back home who had contributed to enable them to attend the camp. We were entertained by children with their beautiful singing, dancing, mime and sketches as well as testimonies of their journeys to know Jesus as their Saviour.
This was a real experience for Carol and me. We are both glad we went, and continue to pray for those children we came into contact with and thank those who were praying for us.
Yet this was only the first – there was another camp in another place - hopefully drier and sunnier.
As we left the mountains out came the sun, thank you God. We moved to Oradea for a night in a hotel. Comfort!
On the Sunday, with the sun streaming down and the temperature up to 30º, we went to visit a Street shelter where, on a daily basis, street children and those from an orphanage came to eat, use computers (those we have thrown away) and to be helped by the workers.
There were children everywhere so we tried to do some of the things we had done with the Moldovan children. Sing songs, story telling, colouring and, yes, Friendship bracelets.
A slight hiccup, no screen for the data projector! We had a white sheet but no nails or pins to stick into the wall, but do not worry - Carol’s here as she took off her shoes which had drawing pins in the soles from school. Day saved again.
After about 10 minutes, the older children got up and went out. Quickly following, I discovered it was breakfast time. Chips, meat and pop. It was not possible to do games, as the site was very compact. We left for Sunday lunch to enable the staff to do what they did at lunchtime with the children.
After our MacDonald’s and chips (sorry fries) we returned. In the afternoon, most of the children had their faces painted and received a gift of a football shirt.
From here we moved on to Tinca, a small village south of Oradea. We were living in an old Romanian ‘holiday’ camp where the communists came to recuperate and take the water (very salty). The idea was to help at the school with a holiday club. We passed through the Roma village - one room houses, no sanitation, no running water - to get to the school which had been built by Christians over the last few years. It was surrounded by a wall and a large gate.
On our arrival, the children came running to see these strangers and to find out why we were there. They came in families of 6, 7, 8 children with the eldest one being in charge. They were different to the Moldovans, only having the clothes that they stood up in. They had no sense of sharing. When they got a ball or something similar, they kept it for themselves as they had nothing, so this was a bonus?
The school had 3 classrooms holding about 20 children and at present is outside the state system as they have not had enough children pass a ‘state exam’ to qualify for aid. They were awaiting the latest results which may enable them to receive funding. To try to know who they were, each one made a name badge, which we laminated but, with so many, the laminator finally burnt out.
As a present we could leave behind, we got them all to draw round their hand on a felt sheet, cut it out and stick onto a sheet. The weather was now the other extreme - red hot - so outside we played football, other ball games and skipping but had to rest in the shade whilst drinking plenty of bottled water.
Friendship bracelets came to the fore once again. By now I become an expert but still not as quick as some of the children. Attached to the school was a small church, well, a room used as a church where, in groups according to age, we sang and listened to Christian stories. In the evening, we returned to our hotel where we had our evening meal in the ‘canteen’, on numbered tables.
There was no choice. We had the same as the Romanians who were there holidaying, mainly old people. Everything was provided for their needs but you had to have a ticket and sit at your place. Very interesting!
After evening meals we gathered together to share our experiences of the day and share fellowship. The following day, many children turned up but not necessarily the same as the day before - different brothers and sisters but with the same nametags, as if this was an entry ticket.
The school provided food for the pupils who had attended regularly. We played games, made items and generally enjoyed being with the children. It was still hot and sunny; the smell at times was not very pleasant.
On our final day it was decided to have a bus trip out as a reward for the school children. But that’s another story...
Patrick Henderson
Happy Anniversary – the final chapter
We awoke to another hot sunny day; breakfast consumed, got our belongings and headed for the road to be picked up. After a while round the corner came a 1950s single-decker bus with curtains. We climbed abroad and made our way to collect the children. The bus stopped short of the village as only the children who had been regular attendees at school were being allowed to go on the trip.
But when the bus stopped every child from the village came running down the road to try to get on the bus but the teachers knew exactly who was coming and no more. The children sat together 2 or 3 on a seat, no seat belts no documentation from their parents, so here we are 12 foreigners with a bus full of Romanian children going off to who knows where, none of us speaking the others language. Through the town and over the river, the children already getting very excited some had never seen so much water even though it was only 15 minutes from home. Out into the country and into the mountains with the roads got narrower and narrower. Finally we came to this small holding which apparently belonged to a church member, the bus stopped and the children were given instructions on what to do.
The pastor (head teacher) arrived in his car pulling a trailer containing trestle tables, cooking pots and other implements for peeling and cooking. The tables were set and from another car came breakfast for the children, pate’ on bread well that’s what it looked like. The water was drawn from the well and given to the children with their food we drank only from the sealed bottled water which had been bought for us. After eating the children were sent off to collect wood so that fires could be made to cook the lunch, meat and chips. The children came back with all sorts and shapes of wood some of which had to be chopped to size either by one of the men or a seven year old boy (health and safety?)
With the fires started we gathered together to play games, parachute, throwing frisbee, football or just running about enjoying ourselves and children. The helpers from the school sat on their chairs or a log and peeled potatoes with the help of some of us the chipped the potatoes.
The meat and chips were put on the barbeque to cook. The children were still running around n the glorious sunshine and some occasionally sneaked off to paddle in the stream near by.
Lunch was nearly ready so we gathered all in; sat down under a tree for some shade after saying grace the food was distributed first to the children, sausages, chips and bread, their second meal of the day. We adults got ours but instead of sausage some lovely pork steaks barbeque to a turn. Everyone enjoyed lunch and whilst some took the children for a walk the rest of us tidied up, there was not much left uneaten.
The smaller children who did not go on the walk played games thoroughly enjoying themselves so were we! When everybody returned we sat in the shade singing together, them to us in Romanian and us to them in English and sometimes singing the same chorus in both languages.
As a thank you we presented all of the children with a cap hopefully to keep the sun off. At the end of a very tiring day we all climbed aboard the bus for the return journey. It was very quiet most of us were asleep but soon we were back the children running off into the distance to show and tell all about their day out.
Carol and I had another little job to do we went with the pastor to home of one of children to take the remaining sandwiches from the morning to give to the mother. This would probably last them for a couple of days. The house had one room for all the family with a lean-to were the washing was done, mother an invalid in a wheel chair, several children and father away, no sanitation or running water.
Well apart from our final get together with the team to share that evening that was our anniversary event over.
Did we enjoy? – Yes
It was very different from normal fortnight but we saw Gods love in action and we thank everyone who supported us in anyway especially your prayers.
Will we return? Well there is a question
Patrick and Carol Henderson





